Saturday, August 25, 2007


Tonight we went out for dinner at Kelly's Row in downtown Dover. We had a nice meal and on the way out, I saw a friend I haven't seen since high school. We recognized each other immediately even thought it's probably been about 25 years since we've seen each other. I've been smiling all night thinking about it.
I used to wonder how old people recognized friends they hadn't seen in decades. Who could tell with all those wrinkles and stuff? Now I get it! I mean, she looked the same to me as she did back then.

Monday, August 20, 2007

Summer On the Wane

Even in mid-August, if you look up at the trees that are old or sick you can see patches of leaves starting to change color. The weather has been cool the past couple of days and it's all reminding me that summer really is going to end soon. Damn it.
Not only am I going to miss walking out of the house without a thought of a sweater or jacket, I will have to snuffle my way through hay fever season before we get to the soup and cozy sweater weather. The sneezing and blocked sinuses have already commenced. Joy.

Thursday, August 16, 2007

Friday, August 03, 2007


Wow. I was going to try to be eloquent and write gracefully about my ex-mother in law, but I'm feeling too happy for eloquent execution right now. My former mother in law has called me recently because of some paperwork she needed me to sign regarding some investments she made in my daughter's name. With the divorce and all I hadn't spoken to her for a couple of years and knowing the typical Japanese reaction to divorce and the acrimony of my ex, I figured the whole family probably hated me.
I was wrong.
My mother in law called last week, and along with discussing the business part of things, we also did a lot of catching up. She told me she still considers me her daughter (she grew up the youngest of five or six girls and then went on to have two sons herself) and invited me to stay at the house when I visit Japan next summer. It made me very happy to talk with her and to hear that she is well and doesn't have any hard feelings.
She called again this morning to let me know she received the documents I sent and to thank me. We chatted some more. She told me again that despite the divorce, she still thinks of me as her daughter and once again said to come stay with them next summer. At the end of this call I had my wits about me enough to ask her to give my regards to her husband.
My ex-father in law and I have had some rough moments. I've spent a fair amount of time being pissed off at him for blaming me for his dissatisfactions with his son. I kind of figured we were definitely on the outs now, no matter what my mother in law said because I know she's the kind of person who will do as she wishes even if it rubs him the wrong way.
Well, after I said "please send my regards" she put him on the phone. He sounded healthy and cheerful and , dare I say it, happy to be speaking with me! He also told me I was their daughter and to stay healthy and come stay with them next year.
This whole development really blows my mind. In a good way.